I don't know how many times I've heard women say where are all the good men or n**gas ain't s**t. These statements are becoming an epidemic and yet I know one of the causes, "The Good Girl". She is every man's "Holy Grail", a women with morals and values, drive, attitude, the ability to break those emotional walls and make you want to be a better man. Recently this women has become a vicious killer, her guise are these values, her target the good men out there. A lot of the a**hole's out there are really good men or were, but were ruined by a so called good girl. As men it takes a lot for us to break down the emotional wall, naturally we're protector's and providers so showing emotion is not something that comes easily, but sometimes we meet a women who is worth letting in. The problem is many times it's the wrong woman and we don't see through the facade. Women say they get hurt all the time and are supposed to just get over it, so why cant we. Well women are naturally emotionally stronger, when we get hurt it leaves a brutal scar that will effect all the relationships we have, because we don't want to get scarred again. Many of you ladies know this serial killer, hell you might even be her. The woman who has a great dude that adores her, yet still traipse around entertaining other men, could give a damn about the dude she's with, or milk's him for everything he's worth. Did the sex in the city age really make it okay to saunter around town and have sex like a man. Did four white women really make it okay to have a great dude and still, get your rocks off on the side. Maybe we need to differentiate between acting and reality. While your waking up in a different bed every night thinking damn I'm fabulous everyone else is thinking damn shes a skeez. The classic line is I'm not into material things, but the first flashy chain and gold bottle you see an you scurrying like a rat to get in VIP. It throws me how I hear I'm a great woman an love my dude, but you are the same woman who flirts and throws sexual innuendo's at every dude that comes your way and cover it with, "There's nothing wrong with flirting" get the hell outta here. If you love and care so much no other dude should even be able to turn your head or get your attention. Many of us good men are ruined by you little girls. The "Good girl" is a treacherous b***h that takes no prisoners, not only does she ruin good men, but she creates a snow ball effect that ruins good women as well. The sad part about all of this is that she's so good at what she does, she not only convinces the people around her that what she's doing is okay she convinces herself. Despite what many women may want to believe if we show interest it's usually genuine interest, if you want to play games buy monopoly. Women have to do their part to, if you come across this predator stop her before she ruins a good dude for the next women. It's time to expose the good girl gone bad.- If your girl constantly ask you about another guy "Who is is he dating" "Have you met his girl" "Is he okay" you might need to reevaluate her ass
- It's okay to have separate social lives, everyone is not always very outgoing, but if she always wants to be on the scene, in pics with random people, always in someones red rope section, an when you try to go out with her she makes excuses, she's still holding on to the possibility you got something on the side..........it's time for a sit down.
- If your introduced or referred to as the boo, friend, squeeze, etc. Unacceptable, we are grown you don't need to be introduced by these terms, we're not doing s**t friends do, if she says she doesn't do titles, cool, she's still a little girl an in that case yall don't need to go out anywhere where she has to introduce you as anything but her dude and since where friends that's wassup............ummm when we get done having sex, don't think your sleeping here, please get your s**t an dip, you know where the door is, and thanks.
- It's okay to have friends, but when your holding on a little too long to ex's or friends you were involved with somethings wrong. She may even hit you with I have a lot of guy friends, but if there are only certain people she talks to ALL the time and you've never met them, check her.
- Notice her interaction with you, if she hits you with I'm not materialistic but she wants you to take back $500 earring you got her for another pair, or she's always trying to have you call a connect to get her an her girls in the club........red flag she's not only trying to get social gain, but financial
- Unless it's a life or death situation, no one should be calling after a certain hour
- After an argument she turns to the next dude for comfort or to make you jealous, red flag she has no loyalty, we're adults we can work it out when we get home, jealousy is childish
- Don't ever fall for the I was really drunk card
- If her friend is a treacherous chick and she encourages it, get rid of her, cause 9 times out of 10 she's doing the same thing
- If your constantly apologizing, but you don't think your wrong and there's never any compromise, not cool she thinks she has you wrapped around her finger
It's time to expose "The Good Girl". Fellas don't let her get you, ladies go for her head, remember once we get dogged we take some of these traits, no one knows a women better than a women, so how do yall think we're able to hurt yall so bad, stop her before the snowball ruins you. If this raises an eyebrow to your own situation, you might want to get out of that...........ASAP!!!!!
this is TOO real...
ReplyDeletewhat about the men that are JUST like this? or does it not count?
ReplyDeleteLet’s examine this to the fullest extent. The comments on emotions are my first target of discussion. I can’t even tell you how many times I have heard men talk about the emotions of the female. There is nothing wrong with emotions. In my opinion, it comes down to the matter of emotional intelligence. Now that I will hold claim to as a female and hold my head high.
ReplyDeleteYou spoke about the girl with a man that adores her but she messes it up. Has it occurred to you that maybe what the man felt was adoring action and perfection on his part, was in reality, not cutting it.
When entering into a relationship, each person should see themselves as a prize however, please don’t let that go to your head and think that you have nothing to improve upon. In reality, no one is that good of a catch. This applies to both genders.
As for the men and women out there thinking that they got played. Maybe you played yourself. You played your self the first time she flirted too hard with another man and you looked the other way. You played your self that first you told her how much she meant to you and she only responded with a hug and a pat on your back. You played your self the first time you showed her something you really loved and she showed no interest and you stayed in the relationship anyway. And the biggest play of them all… when you let her sugar walls hypnotize you to stay when you knew at least three other men that had enjoyed that before you.
And Ladies, you may have played your self when you told your self you could change him. What you see is what you get. You signed up for heart break when you choose to look the other way pass all the pain, cheating, flirting and lack of emotional connections.
There was a comment made that asked if Sex and the City gave women permission to go around having sex like a man. I found this to be the most interesting comments I’ve heard in months. Why???? Because if these so called Sex in the City women are going to be stopped like the whores they are being accused of, then who would all the men be having sex with?????
In the end, it always takes two. I see so much finger pointing being done among genders and it is especially sad to see it done within the black race. After all, wasn’t that Willie Lynch’s plan from the beginning? Turn the men and women against each other and rule them all.
Let’s Try to Wake up. There is so much more to considerate on.
-- L